Your Daily Pull
Can bad sex really get better with time?
Every day, Bustles tarot writer Carolyn Steber turns to her deck to answer readers questions.
Q:I hooked up with someone new for the first time and it was terrible.
Do I give it another shot?
Are you about to have the steamiest experience of your life?
Will your mind be blown by a sexy stranger who magically knowsexactlyhow to make your toes curl?
Sometimes youluck out and have incredible chemistryright from the jump.
… Not so much.
Should You Hook Up Again?
That might be why it felt rushed, orwhy you didnt finish.
Luckily, thats often an easy problem to fix.
The next time youre in bed together, take your time.
Tell them what you do and dont like.
Putting on aslow jam playlistmight help, too.
Its also a hint that you like them more than you realize and want to see where things go.
For a quick check-in, ask yourself if you had fun while fully clothed.
Was your date interesting?
Did theyask thoughtful questions?
If you answered yes, send a you up?
(Or, you know, a more mature invitation.)
Will The Sex Actually Get Better?
To get more clarification, I asked my deck if the sex is likely to improve.
I received theKing of Wands,a card that points to themes of determination, confidence, and passion.
It suggests that you might enjoy trying again.
Youll get used to each other one romp at a time.
Instead ofbailing and blocking, consider giving them another chance.
Go in with confidence, share whats on your mind, and embrace the fun of figuring it out.
For more, check outyour horoscope.
source: www.bustle.com
