Love
The TikTok dating guru chats about age gaps, self-love, and how to DTR.
Anna Kai knows a thing or two about dating.
Kai started her content journey as a home decor blogger and fashion enthusiast.
Nothing was working out for me.
My career, my relationships.
(Kai now lives in Connecticut.)
Although she admits to having a few hate-follows, shes OK with that.
They drive up engagement; its fine.
Overall, my life did work out, because I chose it, she says.
How do you feel about prenups?
I didnt get a prenup.
I want to talk about Chads.
How would you describe them?
A Chad is a man who is overly confident with no self-worth.
That is also the problem with toxic masculinity.
A red pill bro?
How do you define dating someone versus seeing someone in todays romantic vortex?
My general rule of thumb is three to five dates is seeing somebody.
How do you address the dreaded what are we conversation?
You say, Ive loved getting to know you, but I am looking for a committed relationship.
I know because our desire to not be alone trumps our desire to be treated well.
How do you develop higher self-worth?
Confidence [comes from] practice.
I never felt confident in my 20s, and even now have huge moments of self-doubt.
Are there any self-care rituals that you rely on to feel your best?
Say no more often and dont feel bad about it.
source: www.bustle.com
