TikTok’s “How They Come Is How They Leave" Relationship Theory, Explained

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Hindsight is 20/20.

Think back to your last relationship.

How did it start?

On TikTok, people are talking about how relationships often end how they began.

How did it end?

According to TikTok, both likely happened in roughly the same way.

If it started fast, it ended fast.

You lose your partner how you got them.

If it was a slow burn, then maybe it fizzled out over a year.

Heres what to know, as well as Wests thoughts on whether or not people can change.

You Lose Em How You Got Em

According to West, many relationships follow this predictable pattern.

You lose them how you get them.

This theory covers so many scenarios, and its common for that energy to exist from start to finish.

If the answer is no, you may want to reconsider how they got there in the first place.

Source:

Veronica West, psychologist, founder ofMy Thriving Mind